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Are we protecting our kids too much? Or is this simply modern parenting, where avoiding emotional pain feels like the safer path? My wife and I recently had a real parenting clash about our daughter’s year-end ceremony. She didn’t receive any awards this year, and my wife felt it would be too painful for her to perform on stage while watching her friends collect theirs. She wanted to shield her from that discomfort... the awkwardness, the disappointment, the silent comparison. I get it. No parent wants to watch their child hurt.

But for me, this moment wasn’t about trophies at all. It was about resilience, character, and learning to show up even when things don’t go your way. These tough moments are often the quiet builders of strength.

I’m genuinely curious how you see it. If you’re a parent, how do you balance protecting vs preparing? If you’re not a parent, what do you wish your parents did differently? Share your honest thoughts below. I’d love to hear how others navigate this.

In the upcoming Drive With Me episode dropping this Monday, 8th December, 6:15AM, I’m also bringing you behind the scenes at the workshop while my taxi gets serviced. A little parenting talk, a little life talk, and a little cabbie life all in one. Stay tuned, this one is close to my heart. 🚕